Accepting Change

I think the idea of change is a scary thought for most of us, truth is that though change is good we often don't know what to expect. A friend of mine once said to me, "i'm not afraid of what i'll face but i'm afraid to stay"... that sums up the fact that change is scary for most. At times, when we decide to change things or situations we don't like,we are often not scared,instead we are hopeful and inspired. But if change occurs because of an external factor we feel uncomfortable, especially if we don't have control over the situation. It's human nature to want to hold on to things. There was a time in my life when I was scared of change and used to hold on to the past, that was untill I realised that my fear was stealing my happiness. When it comes to relationships, some people would rather stick to the dysfunctional ones than to get out. The trick is to know that no one will ever love you until you love yourself. In essence when you love yourself there are things you wouldn't put yourself through. As my father of Modern Economic Theory (Adam Smith) stated, self-interest is what makes the world go round. Somehow in a strange way we help one another. If you appreciate your own worth, then chances are you will appreciate other people. It's weird how fast the year went by, I remember reading my copy of the January issue of Glamour magazine in December while on Holiday in Mozambique...There was a portion which stated that this year we should break up with anyone who doesn't appreciate us, be it a hairstylist, designer, friend and that really stuck to my mind. I personally don't remember learning to let go and accepting and embracing change, but somehow that's exactly what I have done. I have learnt to burn my bridges, get rid of people who don't inspire me and just let go of excess baggage, and I must say...it's been the best choice I have ever made. I have peace of mind and inner peace, I'm not afraid of change anymore!!!!